Savvy Senior: Tips for choosing a memory care facility

Dear Only Daughter: Choosing a good memory care residential unit for a loved one with dementia is a very important decision that requires careful evaluation.

Most memory care units, sometimes called special care units, are housed within assisted living or nursing home facilities. At their best, they offer staff extensively trained in caring for people with dementia, individualized care that minimizes the use of dangerous psychotropic drugs, a homey environment and activities that improve a resident’s quality of life. But at their worst, they can offer little more than a locked door.

Here are some steps to help you find a good facility and avoid a bad one.

■ Make a list: To identify good memory care residential units in your area, ask your dad’s doctor for a referral or use an online search tool like Caring.com. Make sure the facilities on your list are close to family members and friends who can visit often, because residents with frequent visitors usually get better care.

■ Research your options: Once you’ve made a list, call your local long-term care ombudsman (see LTCombudsman.org for contact information). This is a government official who investigates assisted living and nursing home complaints and can tell you which facilities have had problems.

If you’re looking at a memory care unit within a nursing home facility, use Medicare’s nursing home compare tool (Medicare.gov/care-compare), which provides a five-star rating system.

■ Call the facilities: Once you’ve identified a few good facilities, call them to find out if they have vacancies, if they provide the types of services your father needs, what they charge and if they accept Medicaid.

■ Tour your top choices: During your tour, inspect the cleanliness of the facility. Is it homey and inviting? Does the staff seem responsive and kind to its residents? Also, be sure to taste the food, and talk to a current resident’s family members, if available.

Ask about staff screening and training procedures, their turnover rate and their staff-to-resident ratio. Make sure they provide quality activities to keep your dad engaged, and find out how they respond to residents who may wander away or become aggressive.

Because transitions can be unsettling for dementia sufferers, make sure that your dad will be able to remain at the facility for the foreseeable future. Find out what, if any, health conditions might require him to leave the facility or move to a higher level of care.

It’s also a good idea to make multiple visits to the facility, including an unscheduled visit in the evening or weekend when the staff is more likely to be stretched thin.

To help you choose a good facility, the Alzheimer’s Association offers a list of questions to ask at CommunityResourceFinder.org/Alz/Tips — click on “Tips for choosing a residential care facility” under Housing Options.

■ Paying for care: The national average costs for memory care within an assisted living facility is over $6,000 per month, and over $8,500/month for nursing home care, but costs can vary widely depending on location and services.

Since Medicare does not cover long-term care, most residents pay for care from either personal savings, a long-term care insurance policy or through Medicaid (if available) once their savings are depleted.

If your dad is a veteran, he might be able to get funds through the VA’s Aid and Attendance benefit. To learn more, ask the facility director or contact the regional VA benefit office at 800-827-1000.

Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit SavvySenior.org.