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Lady Gaga’s foundation spreads message of mental wellness, support among local youth

Updated October 1, 2020 - 7:39 pm

In October 2018 when Lady Gaga co-wrote an op-ed on suicide for The Guardian newspaper, one that implored the world to take mental health seriously, her Born This Way Foundation already was in Las Vegas, working on mental wellness with teens and partner organizations.

Lady Gaga's mother, Cynthia Germanotta, from left, with Kyler Nipper and Maya Enista Smith. (B ...
Lady Gaga's mother, Cynthia Germanotta, from left, with Kyler Nipper and Maya Enista Smith. (Born This Way Foundation)

When Gaga goes on tour, so does Born This Way. The nonprofit for youths, founded in 2012 by Gaga and her mother, Cynthia Germanotta, invited concertgoers in each city onto the Born Brave Bus to learn about creating a “kinder, braver world.” It also connects them with community resources by providing stations at the concert’s entrance. One concert tour offered pre-show counseling by mental professionals.

“What we were excited about for Las Vegas is getting to stay there, getting to set up shop, build relationships and be there for more than a night or two,” Born This Way executive director Maya Enista Smith says.

She has gotten to know local change-makers and is aware of Las Vegas’ poor rating on the national index for mental health. “The tone from the start of the foundation has been one of aspiration, young people envisioning a world that is not yet possible, and working everyday toward building it.”

Suicide is a major public health problem and a leading cause of death, according to the National Institute of Mental Health. Though Nevada’s suicide rate has stabilized in the past two decades, it is nearly double the nation’s rate and is dead last on Mental Health America’s 2019 state ranking for prevalence of mental illness and lack of access to care.

(If you or someone you know needs help, contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 800-273-8255.)

“It’s OK to not be OK” is the stigma-conquering mantra Born This Way uses. It partnered with the National Council for Behavioral Health to bring teen Mental Health First Aid to the U.S. where in-person training programs and a step-by-step action plan teaches young people how to recognize mental health or substance abuse issues in friends and get them to an adult.

Valley High was one of eight schools selected nationally to pilot the program.

With the school’s high percentage of homeless students, a 100 percent free or reduced-price lunch program, and transient student body (one-third of it coming and going throughout the school year), staff already is trained in trauma sensitivity. Mental health counseling is offered at the school’s wellness center. Student training in a form of mental health CPR was the next step. The entire school completed the program in 2019.

Aysha Mahmood, editor and program associate at Born This Way Foundation, works with students at ...
Aysha Mahmood, editor and program associate at Born This Way Foundation, works with students at Western High School in Las Vegas. (Born This Way Foundation)

“What a difference it did make for our students,” says Ramona Esparza, principal at Valley, where staff learned early on that unless mental health challenges were addressed it was difficult for students to improve academically.

Because of the training, Esparza says, “Our students are very inclusive now. They see a peer in need, they get them to an adult.”

Fifteen-year-old Kyler Nipper sees so much value in that approach.

In sixth grade he was bullied for his walk and his plain shoes and stabbed with a pencil by a student at school in Colorado Springs — puncturing his lung, landing him in the hospital and leaving him with PTSD. After emergency surgeries, he received a pair of new shoes from another student. It was a gesture of kindness that transformed his entire outlook. Now a Las Vegas resident, Nipper has distributed more than 30,000 shoes to those in need through his nonprofit, Kyler’s Kicks, and through his Kyler’s Kicks Lounge in the Arts District.

“My advice is to spread kindness,” he says. “All it takes is one person.”

Kyler Nipper founded nonprofit Kyler’s Kicks, which gives shoes and hot meals to the homeless ...
Kyler Nipper founded nonprofit Kyler’s Kicks, which gives shoes and hot meals to the homeless. His storage facilty is filled with shoes waiting to be distributed. (Benjamin Hager/Las Vegas Review-Journal) @benjaminhphoto

It’s people like Nipper that make Las Vegas such an inspiring community, Enista Smith says. She sees change-makers as the answer to altering that narrative of mental wellness in Las Vegas, even with Born This Way’s commissioned study that surveyed 400 youths, finding that nearly 90 percent of the teens viewed mental health as a priority topic, but less than half rarely or ever discuss it with others; 1 in 4 say youth lack access to supportive mental health resources in the community.

That’s because on the ground Enista was seeing something else. “There is a hope and a problem solving that is really going to change that,” she says. “We’re seeing innovation, creativity and urgency to address those issues.”

While the pandemic has had an affect on some of the nonprofit’s efforts, it has not ended its Las Vegas programs. That includes #BeKind21, which invites 21 days of kindness in September, and its Channel Kindness Awards, as well as partnerships here.

In its Las Vegas residency, Born This Way has hosted service projects and kindness projects and Enista Smith, who spoke at Moonridge Foundation’s Annual Philanthropy Leaders’ Summit, invited Moonridge’s CEO and principal Julie Murray to a U.N. Summit addressing mental health.

Born This Way is one of many partners in Hope Means Nevada, an organization that Murray co-chairs (and founded with the late Eric Hilton), to raise awareness about mental health and teen suicide. It uses metrics from Nevada Medical Center. Murray says that between the pandemic and the economy, she is finding more urgency about mental health awareness than ever, and that as a Las Vegan, she’s never seen the community this hurt.

But like Enista Smith, she sees important change coming from youth on mental wellness: “The teens are standing up and saying ‘This is not what we want for our community,’ ” she said.

And then there is Kyler Nipper, whose own trauma, like Lady Gaga’s, inspired a movement.

“It’s important to stay positive,” Nipper says. “Just never give up. This isn’t the end of your life, this is only one little chapter. All my dreams came true. We’re changing the world.”

This story has been updated to correct Maya Enista Smith’s name.

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