Hollywood loves lovers and happy, wacky wedding stories
June 5, 2011 - 1:01 am
Tis the season for happily ever afters. And for every happy couple tying the knot this summer, there's a wedding movie to match -- or, more accurately, to provide comedic contrast.
Even "The Hangover Part II" ends with a romantic ceremony at a palatial Thai beach resort. But not before the groom endures an entire movie's worth of R-rated Bangkok misadventures -- with the same buddies who shared the first wedding-eve "Hangover" in Las Vegas.
And the "Bridesmaids" of the summer's other wedding-themed hit endure a raucous range of prenuptial complications, from a jealous attendant trying to undercut the maid of honor's authority to a particularly nasty case of food poisoning -- which, inevitably, strikes en masse while the title characters are trying on dresses at a swanky bridal salon.
Yes, cinematic weddings can be comedically complicated, all right. In this summer's "Something Borrowed," the handsome future groom finds himself drawn to the quiet law-school classmate who introduced him to her best friend: his life-of-the-party fiancee. Or consider the uptown versus downtown conflict at the heart of "Jumping the Broom," in which the bride's old-money family and the groom's blue-collar relatives, who have never met, converge on Martha's Vineyard for the big event.
The fact that this summer's movie lineup includes a trio of wedding movies -- it's a quartet, if you count the "Hangover" sequel -- testifies to the theme's perennial appeal.
When Marisa Rodriguez thinks of wedding movies, she automatically thinks of happy endings.
"Even if there's some drama, you're always happy at the end of the movie," says the 31-year-old Las Vegan, who just completed her first year of law school -- and will be a bride herself next month.
Among Rodriguez's wedding-movie favorites: 1999's "Runaway Bride" (at the time, she identified with Julia Roberts' independent, altar-averse title character) and the big fat 2002 hit "My Big Fat Greek Wedding," in which the bride must deal with her large ethnic family's demands before she can walk down the aisle.
Such prenuptial pressures -- inevitably exaggerated for comic effect -- account for part of wedding movies' overall appeal, whether it's this summer's battling "Bridesmaids" or 2005's "Monster-in-Law," which pitted a feisty bride (Jennifer Lopez) against the witchy title character (Jane Fonda).
"I really enjoyed that one," in part because "you're praying that does not happen to you," says newlywed Tyler Coonts , 26, an account coordinator at a local marketing firm who married last month.
And unlike some guys who refuse to experience the chick-flick pleasures of wedding movies, Tyler's "a good sport," notes wife Lisa Coonts, 25. "I'm lucky -- I get to drag him" along -- unlike one of her friends, who sees wedding movies with her female friends because her husband won't go to them.
Rodriguez's fiance, dance studio owner Sergei Shapoval , 31, loves movies -- including wedding movies.
"I do like pretty much anything," he says. Besides, "it's nice to see a happy ending or laugh about what happens at the wedding."
One of his favorites: 1994's "Four Weddings and a Funeral," in part because of the wide range of comedic characters in attendance, providing an ideal opportunity to "laugh at different people."
In "Bridesmaids," Lisa Coonts identified with the "drama between the bride and the maid of honor" -- in her case, her twin sister, Izabell , who's "single and, like the girl in the movie, she's focusing on getting her own life together." It may be cliche, she adds, but it does happen.
And 1991's "Father of the Bride" -- especially Martin Short's eccentric wedding planner Franck Eggelhoffer -- reminds Las Vegas wife and mother Kari Wiesner Stockham, 41, of her own wedding planner's obsession over "the RSVP count," she recalls.
Dawn Heaney , 36 -- who runs the Las Vegas bridal salon Couture Bride with fellow New York transplant Annette Cirillo-Bergen , 56 -- may be surrounded by wedding gowns all day, but she still loves watching wedding movies.
"They're selling fantasy," Heaney says. "Every little girl wants to be a princess." And, when she's wearing a wedding gown, she can be.
Naturally, both Cirillo-Bergen and Heaney consider 2008's "Sex and the City" movie -- in which heroine Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker) models multiple wedding gowns for a fashion magazine layout -- "the ultimate wedding try-on fantasy," Heaney notes.
Other favorites: 2008's "27 Dresses," about a lovelorn always-a-bridesmaid, 2009's friends-turned-rivals romp "Bride Wars," this summer's "Bridesmaids" -- and, of course, "My Big Fat Greek Wedding," which Heaney calls "the perfect Cinderella story," with a heroine who "transforms from an ugly duckling to a swan."
Yet even such raunchy romps as 2005's "Wedding Crashers" and "The Hangover" ultimately shine a rose-colored spotlight on romance.
"You always hope for a happy ending, but that's not really how it is," acknowledges Wiesner Stockham, who celebrated her 10th anniversary on Cinco de Mayo. "The wedding is the easy part. Marriage is the challenge!"
Contact movie critic Carol Cling at ccling@reviewjournal.com or 702-383-0272.
Something Old, Something New ...
Thousands of movies and TV shows spotlight weddings and their inevitable complications; in addition to the aforementioned titles, here are a few more favorites:
"The Philadelphia Story" (1940) -- When a high-society divorcee (Katharine Hepburn) plans to remarry, a reporter (James Stewart) crashes the party -- with more than a little help from her spurned ex-husband (Cary Grant) in director George Cukor's Oscar-winning classic.
"Father of the Bride" (1950) -- Spencer Tracy's the flummoxed father, Elizabeth Taylor the glowing bride in director Vincente Minnelli's original, which inspired the 1991 remake with Steve Martin, Diane Keaton, Martin Short and Kimberly Williams.
"Lovers and Other Strangers" (1971) -- Renee Taylor and Joseph Bologna's play inspires this comedy about the fallout from a young couple's marriage, featuring (among others) Richard Castellano, Gig Young, Bea Arthur, Bonnie Bedelia, Cloris Leachman and Anne Meara.
"A Wedding" (1978) -- Carol Burnett, Desi Arnaz Jr., Mia Farrow and Paul Dooley lead the ensemble cast of director Robert Altman's satiric cinematic snapshot of the title ceremony.
"The Wedding Banquet" (1993) -- In director Ang Lee's indie breakthrough, a gay landlord (Winston Chao) and a female tenant (May Chin) agree to a marriage of convenience to satisfy his parents, whose arrival from China complicates matters for the groom -- and his live-in lover (Mitchell Lichtenstein ).
"Muriel's Wedding" (1994) -- An ABBA-loving wallflower (Toni Collette) breaks free of her small-town existence, reconnects on vacation with a high school classmate (Rachel Griffiths) -- and finally gets the chance to be a bride.
"My Best Friend's Wedding" (1997) -- A restaurant writer (Julia Roberts) goes into action when her sportswriter soulmate (Dermot Mulroney) announces his engagement to a Chicago charmer (Cameron Diaz), prompting her attempts to sabotage his nuptials.
"Monsoon Wedding" (2002) -- In India, a bride hiding a secret, her stressed-out father, a smitten event planner and relatives from around the world gather for an arranged marriage in director Mira Nair's cinematic banquet of music, social comment and romance.
"Corpse Bride" (2005) -- While practicing his wedding vows, a shy groom (voiced by Johnny Depp) inadvertently brings the title character (voiced by Helena Bonham Carter) back from the grave in writer-director Tim Burton's stop-motion animated treat.
"Rachel Getting Married" (2008) -- Anne Hathaway earned an Oscar nomination for her portrayal of a troubled young woman, fresh out of rehab, who returns home to attend -- make that disrupt -- the wedding of her sister (Rosemarie DeWitt).